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What happens when a long-time feminist activist becomes a mother? How does she stay true to her vocation and voice and still have time for her daughter? She's not sure either, but join this baseball-loving Chicago feminist as she tries to find her way through typical parenting land mines with a feminist perspective.

How much sex ed and when?

For the record, I'm not supporting anyone in the 2008 election at this point. I'm watching, reading, and trying to decide between a few candidates. I am voting for a Democrat, but occasionally like what I hear from a few GOP candidates. Today thou is a whole 'nother story. In today's The Swamp, Sen. Obama rips into former-MA Gov. Romney over sex ed:

Democrat Barack Obama yesterday accused Republican Mitt Romney of trying to score "cheap political points" by telling a group of voters that Obama supports sex education for children in kindergarten.

Romney was apparently extrapolating about a measure Obama backed in the Illinois legislature that called for "age-appropriate" sex ed in the schools. No amount of sex ed is appropriate for a 5-year-old, Romney said.

But Obama suggested Romney was fooling around with the facts.

"We have to deal with a coarsening of the culture and the over-sexualization of our young people. Look, I've got two daughters, 9 and 6 years old," Obama told the Associated Press. "Of course, part of the coarsening of that culture is when politicians try to demagogue issues to score cheap political points."

"What we shouldn't do is to try to play a political football with these issues and express them in ways that are honest and truthful," Obama said. "Certainly, what we shouldn't do is engage in hypocrisy."

The idea that Romney thinks that no amount of sex ed is appropriate for a 5-year-old is outrageous. Are we still living in a world of storks delivering babies? I have a 4-year-old on my hands and she knows she has a vagina. She knows that moms have special tummies for growing babies. I'm still working on her remembering either 'womb' or 'uterus'. We've talked a bit about eggs and how birds lay eggs and humans have eggs in the special tummy. She knows that her body is her body. She firmly let me know the other day that a V-neck I was wearing was "showing your private area!" Um, thanks kid.

We're not at the point where we tell her EXACTLY how mom & dad made her, but I think she has a handle on some very, very basic facts. One of my biggest fears is that she can't defend herself. At least with some education and confidence, she knows that people are not allowed to touch her in her private areas. Even Mom, Dad, and her doctors have limits. I want her to OWN her body her entire life. 

She's just like every other 4-year-old. She's curious about her body and others bodies. She's curious about everything and we try our best to give her honest information. Of course we let her believe in the Easter Bunny, Santa Claus, and when the time comes the Tooth Fairy. Her grandma Irene is in heaven with a few others. But we try to give her real information when appropriate. There's no sense in her believing the angels are bowling during a thunder storm. The clouds hit each other, they go boom. You see the lightening before you hear the thunder because light travels faster than sound. I'm sure Tom Skilling can give a much better response, but that's what she gets.  

That's what age-appropriate means, Mitt. 

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Published Friday, July 20, 2007 12:46 AM by Veronica Arreola

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